
Ashley Gregory
Queer Internal Family Systems Therapy
Hi! I’m Ashley (she/her). I also go by Ash. :)
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) offering online psychotherapy in California with a focus on LGBTQIA+ folx.
Original photo by Kristen Murakoshi
I align with Queers, Weirdos, and Rebels to transform shamefulness into spaciousness with playfulness, curiosity, and hope.

The “Q” in LGBTQIA+ stands for Queer and Questioning.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a relationship-centered, evidence-based, and experiential psychotherapy model prioritizing collaboration and consent.
My approach to LGBTQIA+ affirming Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy includes anyone feeling curious about exploring and/or questioning their relationship to gender roles, gender expression, sexuality, sexual orientation and/or gender identity.
Apply for that metalworking apprenticeship you’ve been eyeing for years
Show up to the monthly solidarity meeting you’ve felt nervous to check out
Rock that badass Queer haircut just in time for employee photo day
Start a coming out conversation at the next Sunday night dinner with your beloveds
Calmly answer that call from the friend who ghosted you when you needed them most
Say “the thing” you thought you’d NEVER say, out loud and with self-compassion
Confidently inform your manager about what is absolutely NOT in your job description
Read your favorite sci-fi graphic novel by yourself during the long awaited family vacation without feeling guilty
Talk to that genderqueer cutie you’ve shared long glances with at the dog park
Care less about what your co-worker thinks about your presentation without feeling careless about them when you run into each other in the break room
Finally enroll in that super silly class because YOU love it (even though no one else wants to go with you)
Know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you’re a good person.
LGBTQIA+ Affirming IFS Therapy can help you…

In my Queer IFS practice, you can expect:
Genuine care.
Inside jokes.
Greeting every part with curiosity.
Conviviality.
Transparency.
A hand on my heart.
Intuitive listening.
Patience.
Reliability.
A fierce commitment to hope.
Shout out to Shawny Sena, LMFT for her example in offering this list format to describe her playful therapy for old souls who are super gay!